My Philosophy

Combining psychology, human behaviour, body intelligence and breath work.

Everything is connected. Our thoughts, emotions & body influence each other. Our environment shapes us as much as we shape it.

Coaching your whole being

The overarching approach I take to coaching considers you as a whole being: mind, body, and emotions.

By ensuring all three of these parts of you are aligned and working at their best, we can effectively address the challenges you’re facing. I call this the Mindset, Mood, Movement (MMM) Philosophy.

Closely tied to this is the fact that our breathing influences our body and – therefore – our mind and emotions too. So, one of the vital tools I encourage all my clients to use in building a healthier life is Breathwork.

Below is an introduction to both the MMM Philosophy and Breathwork.

The MMM Philosophy

If you continue working flat out, you end up burnt-out and unable to function properly. And an unhealthy body is no place for a dynamic and engaged mind. In the worst cases, losing your health can mean losing everything.

I know this all too well because I’ve suffered burnout.  Also, I live with an auto-immune condition so I know how tough illness can be.

But, with the right mindset and lifestyle, I have the tools to be well and manage my wellbeing. I now experience full health, great energy, clarity of mind, and total calm.

Drawing on my experience, as well as my extensive training in physiology and psychology, I have developed an approach to help my clients achieve holistic health.

Rather than only addressing one facet of a person, this approach works with three aspects of our intelligence:  

  • Mind intelligence

  • Body intelligence

  • Emotional intelligence

By examining the shape and patterns of all three aspects, we can become aware of the person’s full nature. That means paying attention to thought patterns, emotional patterns, and physical patterns. Once you understand the nature of the pattern on each level, then you can bring about conscious holistic change. 

To give you an analogy, think of driving around a roundabout but not knowing which junction to take. So, you keep going round and round with no change. Mindset, belief, and behaviour patterns can be just like this metaphorical roundabout.  You need to know which way to go to be able to move on.

For example, for a highly intelligent but anxious person, there’s a good chance that their thinking patterns are logical and looping. They may break their pattern of anxiety every now and again, but ultimately – when under pressure – they return to the same repetitive cycle. When we look at their emotional level it’s common to find that there are similar repetitive patterns in how they feel and how they respond to those feelings. Again, this individual is likely to display recurring patterns in their body. The way they move, the sensations they feel, and how they hold their facial expressions will relate to both their psychological and emotional patterns.

How do people usually improve their mental, emotional, and physical health?

Well, when looking to positively change their lives, some people may choose to work with the architecture of the body and make physical change to impact their mind.

Our emotions drive so much of our behaviour and are the place where most blocks are. So, others might work on their ‘centre’ - the emotional mind.

The mental story we hold; the beliefs, perspective and how we see ourselves defines a large amount of life - positive, negative, or simply outdated. This is why many people concentrate on healing themselves by focusing on mental health.

However, change is most effective when we engage all three levels of being. Once we can identify the connections on each level, we can make distinct change by helping them get unstuck and moving forward in a holistic way.

So, how does this apply to the way I work as a coach?

Well, for example, when I work with a business founder and we are uncovering blocks and problems I’ll often ask, “What do you notice in your body? What happens to you physically when you feel stuck or anxious?”

When my client knows their physiological response combined with the emotions they’re experiencing, we discover the deeper levels to support the psychological change. Most people want to change their behaviour and overcome problems, but this will only stick if you uncover the deeper meaning and feeling behind it.

Why I coach

I believe that it's easy to lose touch with our true selves in today's world.

Many personal problems are caused by internal conflict in our minds. We commonly see our minds as detached from our bodies and business as separate from humanity. This sense of separation or division can leave us and our world fractured.

So, I aim to bring consciousness into life and back into business. I help people reconnect with their whole being so they can live more fulfilling lives for themselves, others, and the ecosystems they belong in.

Because if we're fully awake and connected to our minds, bodies, and feelings, we'll take better care of ourselves, each other, and our world.

From my perspective, I am constantly learning and growing due to this work. When I'm helping people get insight, I also gain understanding. When I'm assisting people in feeling free of their past belief structures, I feel freer. And I get a tremendous sense of both energy and peace of mind at the same time. Everyone and everything is connected.

How I work

I have a holistic, human-centred coaching approach grounded in psychology, neuroscience and physiology but also influenced by Eastern philosophy. It takes into account how you think, how you feel, and how your body responds.

In our sessions together, we'll use this approach to tackle the following six questions and get you to a happier, confident and calmer state of being:

• What is the problem?

• What is it you truly desire?

• What's blocking you?

• What is your greatest strength?

• How do you define yourself?

• What connects you to your purpose?

You're welcome to read more about my philosophy and approach here.

Who I help?

I support people with their personal or business mindset challenges.

On the personal level, I help people who need therapeutic coaching or life coaching because they are struggling with a problem such as anxiety, relationship issues, or not feeling good enough.

For business founders, my coaching is based on how interconnected their work is with their mindset, beliefs, and behaviour. Decision-making, strategy, and vision are driven by the founder's mindset. And the founder is the most important part of the business. So, by helping the founder overcome limiting beliefs and unhelpful habits, the business benefits.

Where I work

In terms of practicalities and logistics, if you're in the Brighton area, I'd prefer to meet with you in person. If not, I'm available via video call (Zoom) anywhere in the UK. I'm also happy to work with anyone outside the UK within 2 hours of the GMT time zone.

Most of my personal coaching clients tend to see me in person, and founder coaching clients usually see me via video call because they're based all over the country.

I run coaching sessions within office hours (UK time), Monday to Friday.

What Got You Here, Won't Get You There

Repeating the same habits and behaviours will not get you to a new place of understanding. To make a change, you need a new strategy.

If you're ready to put in the work, I can help you break the cycle, step away from your fears, and find a practical path to living from a state of peace, purpose, and inner strength.

Book a free mindset diagnostic session with me, and let's find a fresh perspective on your challenges.

After the session, if we've worked well together, we can discuss a potential coaching plan for you.

You're welcome to book your free mindset session directly with me via email or through my booking form.